Every couple is different. Even in the relationships outside of our romantic ones — family, friends, etc. — there will likely be a time when an apology is necessary. So, how do you give a sincere apology? Turns out, we all have our own way of doing it, and that’s ok. Here are 5 different ways of apologizing.
Expressing Regret
You may be the type that apologizes by showing remorse for what you’ve done. If you do, be clear about what you’re apologizing for so it’s sincere. You shouldn’t act like you’re sorry that you were caught, so be sure your apology doesn’t start off with, “I’m sorry if…” You don’t want to put the blame on the other person.
Accepting Responsibility
Another way to apologize is to accept responsibility. Accept fault for what you did wrong, and be sure to be specific. It’s all about communication and mending the relationship. It’s far easier to say, “you’re right,” than “I’m wrong,” but the latter carries more meaning. It carries more weight.
Making Amends
Sometimes it feels right to apologize by making amends. How can you make things right? How is your S.O. doing? How can you restore confidence in the other person? You may already know the answer — sometimes you know exactly what to do to make things right, but sometimes you need feedback from your partner.
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by Hayley Quinn on April 3, 2012
No matter what age you are, introducing your new significant other to your family can be a stressful situation filled with apprehension and a pulse rate so high you swear you’re going to have a heart attack. As a guy introducing a new girlfriend to his family, you’re probably worried that your family is going to chase her away.
As the son in a family, you’ll be up against a few things when you bring a new girlfriend home to meet the family. At the bottom of the totem pole you have your siblings. Brothers are probably not much of a concern — expect some teasing or jealousy, both of which are easy enough to handle. Depending on your sisters, if you have any, you may or may not have a problem. Girls have a very differing attitudes toward other women, so as soon as your girlfriend walks through the door, your sisters, and probably your mother, are going to have her “type” selected. With any luck she will pass their tests, but more likely, if she is too much like them or too much unlike them, you may have a problem.\
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by Kristin Marshall on March 15, 2012
It’s sad that in the world of dating, we’re taught to shroud our feelings in mystery. All in the name of protecting ourselves, of course! What if you meet a guy that goes against the grain — is it all bad? Here are 3 things that scare many women off, but shouldn’t.
He unexpectedly compliments you
If you’re used to a guy that pays you a compliment after you’ve “earned it,” you may be disarmed if your date compliments you out of nowhere. “You seem very nice,” for example. Many women think, “Is this guy needy? Is this guy a creeper?” How much could he really know about you already? Well, you’d be surprised. From a short conversation, that guy could already have discovered that you are a genuinely kind person. He’s probably already discovered a few great qualities about you. The thing is, most guys just don’t come out with those compliments immediately. Don’t freak out immediately!
He introduces you to his friends early on
After a few dates, your guy wants to introduce you to his friends. Woah. What’s going on? Your mind’s probably racing, “Is he already trying to rope me into his life?” — relax. Introducing you to his friends doesn’t always warrant a freak out, nor does it mean your date has decided that you’re the one. In fact, it could mean the opposite. He could be using his friends as a sounding board, to see if they like you and to get any feedback from them to determine his course of action.
He’s making plans for a second date on the first
Women these days are used to being tortured, waiting for feedback from their date. “Will I get a text from him saying he had fun? Does he like me? AGH!” Many times our questions are answered when we get asked out again a few days, or a week, later. But that’s the rub — we’re used to that wait time. So, if our date suggests a second date before the first is over, some women think red flag. Is he needy? Not necessarily — he just might like you. Think back on your date: Have you picked up on any other red flags? Has he done anything else to indicate desperation? Did you both have a great time? Well, if the coast is clear, take him up on the offer. You may have scored a great, confident guy and hey, he’s saving you the frustration of wondering.
