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It’s sad that in the world of dating, we’re taught to shroud our feelings in mystery. All in the name of protecting ourselves, of course! What if you meet a guy that goes against the grain — is it all bad? Here are 3 things that scare many women off, but shouldn’t.

He unexpectedly compliments you

If you’re used to a guy that pays you a compliment after you’ve “earned it,” you may be disarmed if your date compliments you out of nowhere. “You seem very nice,” for example. Many women think, “Is this guy needy? Is this guy a creeper?” How much could he really know about you already? Well, you’d be surprised. From a short conversation, that guy could already have discovered that you are a genuinely kind person. He’s probably already discovered a few great qualities about you. The thing is, most guys just don’t come out with those compliments immediately. Don’t freak out immediately!

He introduces you to his friends early on

After a few dates, your guy wants to introduce you to his friends. Woah. What’s going on? Your mind’s probably racing, “Is he already trying to rope me into his life?” — relax. Introducing you to his friends doesn’t always warrant a freak out, nor does it mean your date has decided that you’re the one. In fact, it could mean the opposite. He could be using his friends as a sounding board, to see if they like you and to get any feedback from them to determine his course of action.

He’s making plans for a second date on the first

Women these days are used to being tortured, waiting for feedback from their date. “Will I get a text from him saying he had fun? Does he like me? AGH!” Many times our questions are answered when we get asked out again a few days, or a week, later. But that’s the rub — we’re used to that wait time. So, if our date suggests a second date before the first is over, some women think red flag. Is he needy? Not necessarily — he just might like you. Think back on your date: Have you picked up on any other red flags? Has he done anything else to indicate desperation? Did you both have a great time? Well, if the coast is clear, take him up on the offer. You may have scored a great, confident guy and hey, he’s saving you the frustration of wondering.

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Online Dating: When You Bump Into Your Ex

by Hayley Quinn on March 6, 2012

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February is around the corner, so how perfect would it be to find that loving, sensitive guy by Valentine’s Day? Well, Chemistry.com wants to help you. They sifted through their piles of data to narrow down the top 10 cities to find a sensitive man in.

But, how did they do it? Using their data based on personality types of American singles, they were able to pinpoint the cities with the highest concentrations of those coveted, sensitive men — and you might be surprised by the results!

The data revealed that many of those sensitive men reside along the east coast, from Florida to New York. Interestingly enough, the top 3 cities are also extremely popular vacation spots (hint, hint).

Chemisty.com’s scientific advisor Dr. Helen Fisher weighed in on the findings:

“Men do have a sensitive side. They want to please. But different men do it differently; and these 10 cities are packed with a certain kind of man, what I call BUILDERS — men who express a constellation of personality traits linked with the serotonin system in the brain,” says Dr. Helen Fisher, Chief Scientific Advisor to Chemistry.com. “Sensitive men, known as builders, are traditional. They deeply value loyalty, duty, respectability and proper moral conduct. They want to do the “right” thing. So builders go way out of their way to keep their social relationships running smoothly. So they watch, listen, and gauge what they need to do to help others and they do it naturally. It’s these chivalrous qualities that make a sensitive man.”

1. Pompano Beach, Florida
2. Roanoke, Virginia
3. West Hollywood, California
4. Nashville, Tennessee
5. Buffalo, New York
6. Sarasota, Florida
7. Greenville, South Carolina
8. Wilmington, North Carolina
9. Indianapolis, Indiana
10. Staten Island, New York

What do you think of the results? Personally, I’m skeptical, but hey, keep an eye out if you’re ever vacationing in any of these spots.

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Online Dating: New Year’s Resolutions For Women

by Hayley Quinn on January 17, 2012

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