Building Trust During Online Dating

by Online Dating on November 9, 2011

For a number of reasons, building trust when you’re involved in online dating can be more challenging than it is in a traditional dating scenario. In addition, it’s often more important to be able to build trust when you’re involved in online dating. You need to be able to convince the other person that you are who you say you are, and that you aren’t a rotten, lying, cheating scumbag. The essential element of any good relationship is trust, and you have to establish that before you can get too far at all.

What is trust, exactly? Ideally, it’s a reciprocal relationship in which you believe in and rely on another person who feels the same way about you. Making that happen in online dating is difficult, but not impossible. Here are some things you can to do demonstrate your trustworthiness to that special person:

  • Be honest. The basis for trustworthiness is honesty. If you’re 5’8” tall, don’t claim to be 6’ tall. If you’ve just gotten out of a long-term relationship, be upfront about that. If you’re unemployed, say so. While you don’t need to just sort of broadcast every potential fault, you also don’t want to seem like the kind of person who covers up his faults.
  • Be trusting. Trust is a reciprocal relationship. If you’re constantly suspicious of someone in an online dating setting, it’s no wonder that they won’t trust you either. Trust engenders trust. At the same time, you need to be smart about it and make sure the person is trustworthy before you make that step.
  • Be thoughtful. It’s easy to fudge a detail in the middle of telling a story to make it sound more interesting than it was, or to put yourself in a better light. In some cases, it’s a matter of just forgetting a detail and inserting a new one in its place. It is these little lies that will put off many potential partners. Make sure you know what you’re talking about before you open your mouth.

Building trust isn’t easy, but if you’re going to have any success in online dating you’re going to have to figure out how to make it happen.

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    Nothing beats honesty. If you want to be trusted then be honest. We all know that online dating is not trustworthy enough but it’s not a valid reason to tell lies about yourself. It’s better to be honest at the first place so you could also build trust to them, at least you will know who will accept you and who will not.

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